In love with people

Once you have left the classic relationship model and no longer want to use someone for your own unresolved processes or other issues that have to do with shifting responsibility, you begin to perceive and recognize people more purely in their essence. Simply as what they are. With reduced personal linkage.

Of course, one has learned to love oneself more before. One enjoys encounters but does not necessarily need them.

I have always loved people. No matter how strange and questionable I found some contemporaries and how little I understood what people are able to do to other beings. 

But when I met a person in his typical human innocence, my heart always jumped and I loved this person from now on for what he was. With his unique peculiarities and imperfections that seem perfect to me. 

Not being in a classic - romantic relationship inevitably creates more room for noncommittal encounters of all kinds. More flirting. More expansiveness.

Nevertheless, it can happen that you get closer to the sex of your choice and at times not only to a representative alone.

How many people are able to tolerate this without becoming judgmental?

How many people understand how it feels to simply love people and, consequently, to fall in love often? 

Loving people and appreciating them, recognizing each other and trusting each other quickly is something so magical. Simply delightful, marvellous and inspiring.

To want to feel people who touch us inwardly, or just magnetically attract us, to want to feel them close, to caress, kiss and squeeze them, is in my opinion in our natural, human aspirations.

But how many people pursue these inclinations? How many people does the establishment allow us to gather around us in this way and does person A get along with the presence of person B and vice versa?

At what point and how many people you love are you considered neurotic?

"All you need is Love", "Love your neighbor as yourself".... We all know slogans of this kind. But what if someone allows himself to use them and truly put them into practice?

And that is exactly what I mean. Where we still stand sucks people!!! And so boring. So 3D!

And are women now allowed the same rights as men? The younger generations tell me that nothing has changed yet in the classic image stereotypes. I'm blindsided! 

The girls are really still the sluts and the guys the cool go-getters? Really?!

Jeez.

When are we finally going to blow up these old relationship models that are basically rooted in fear?

We humans are capable of loving and desiring multiple people. It's our goddamn nature!!!

And I, at least, am no longer willing to subordinate my nature to another person's fears. That never went well, that will never go well. I don't want to call a human being my own, and neither do I want to be looked at that way by anyone.

I want to be able to smooch and squeeze whoever runs conspicuously in front of my lens as a wondrous being. (If it is reciprocated. )

Imagine we would all take this freedom out and it would be normal. Would we feel more satisfied and fulfilled or not? Would there still be just as many alcoholics sitting sad and abandoned in pubs?

Why do we all love watching movies from the 60s-70s? Because the air smelled of liberation. Of love and sex. Miniskirts were never shorter. The blouses more transparent.

We vibrate sexually through and through. Life creates itself exclusively through sex. What is this miserable suppression that must consequently lead to perversion and disease.

It is really enough with this circus. Please stop it. Don't lie to your children anymore. Deep inside we all know what is going on. And that does not exclude temporary monogamous relationships. But they should be entered into 100% voluntarily by both and at best always have the option for a change inherent.

Love whom and how many you want! And grant it to all who are so free to do it.

This is pure life. Pure love.